As a
virtual assistant, I work from a home office. It's great -- and, it's the hardest job I've ever held. My boys are 24 and nearly 14 years old. The 24 year old lives on his own, but my busy teenager is of course still around the house.
Balancing work and family is a challenge. Summer is especially difficult with my son out of school and not quite yet at driving age. Fulfilling a busy work schedule and keeping my youngest happy and busy simultaneously is challenging. Here are a few tips I use to keep all of us in good humor:
1.
Stash money.
You've met a client for coffee. You'll be out for a few hours. Your child calls or texts and asks if he can go play mini golf, to the zoo, to the amusement park -- insert the name of your child's favorite amusement that requires money here. Your child, God bless them, has already orchestrated his transportation with a friend's mom. He's put on sun screen and promises to lock the door when he leaves. He just needs $20.
At the beginning of the summer, I stash 4 or 5 $20 bills in unlikely (but easily locatable with your provided instructions) locations. Don't tell your child where these are in advance, but you may want to share with your spouse if he/she occasionally fields these calls. When this scenario comes up, I tell my son to go to one of my previously defined locations and grab the $20 he finds there.

2.
Use a marker.
This is such a simple tip, but it works very well. Does your teen not seem to know where to look for the totally obvious note you've written for them with instructions?
Try this: Use a dry erase marker to write a note on their bathroom mirror. It's easily wiped off with tissue. Bring out your inner artist with this
Expo Low Odor Chisel 8 Pack
-- I guarantee they'll see your note.
3.
Have your child plan lunches.

During summer break, my oldest son would sometimes come stumbling into my office around noon after he'd just awakened. Ah, to have sleep in days again..... "What's for lunch?" he'd inquire.
I made up my mind that I was going to equip my youngest with strong cooking/kitchen prep survival skills. Every few weeks, I ask my son what he'd like to have for lunch. We negotiate -- I give in
just a little on junk and convenience items during the summer. We mostly settle on items that he can make without cooking, like sandwiches and salads, and items he can microwave, pan fry on the stove or grill on our
George Foreman Removable-Plate Grill. (
See my Lifehack Your Burger entry on our business blog.)
My son loves to grill, and clean up is a snap since the plates are dishwasher safe. I bought ground turkey in bulk at Costco, flattened, scored and packed in 1 gallon zip top bags per the Lifehack Your Burger entry. Quick, tasty lunches are minutes away. Sometimes Ben even makes lunch for me too!
4.
Buy the unlimited text message plan for your child's phone.
I can't believe how much kids text message. It's the new "IM." Save your wallet -- buy the unlimited text plan for your child. It's usually not too costly and it will save you money in the long run. I also find that my children are much more likely to communicate with me via text message, and it comes in handy if I am on a conference call and I can't talk to my child face to face at the moment.
5.
Trade favors with other parents.
More and more parents are working at home, or are working flexible schedules. Work out deals with the parents of the kids your child hangs out with to make your life/work day easier. For example, my youngest is taking summer gym classes. The school the classes are held at is 20+ minutes away. With gas being so outrageous and the travel time to make the round trip at nearly 40 minutes, we car pool with another family. I drive the 6:40 am pick up shift, because it's easier for me. She drives the lunch time pick up shift, because it's easier for her.
If you have a group of kids that all go to the same swim club or other activities together, take a few extra minutes and try to plan how you can tag team with other moms or dads of the group to get everyone transported.
6.
Pay for play.
See item #1. Money doesn't grow on trees, but it sure seems like kids think it works out that way. Sometimes, The First National Bank of Mom and Dad has to be closed. My child gets to do a lot of fun activities in the summer, and I fund most of them -- but not all.
Give your child some structure and let him know that his contributions are a necessary part of being a member of the family. My son helps with the trash cans, feeding and caring for our pets and cuts our grass. In exchange for that, I pay him a nice allowance, and sometimes I tell him that he'll have to use his allowance money if he needs money for an activity.
Summertime is awesome, but requires some creative thinking, particularly when you are a work at home parent. With your child's participation in the planning and preparation, everyone can enjoy the best that the season has to offer.